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(Known as Alf. Later known as Freddie but never to Julia or her
family).
Relationship: Father of John Lennon
14 December 1912(Liverpool) - 1 April 1976
Born into a family of five boys and a sister, John's father, Alfred,
was only nine years old when his father Jack
died. His mother Mary (Polly) was
unable to support such a large family and Alf and his sister Edith
were sent to the Bluecoat Orphanage, Liverpool. Although Alf got
a good education he was very homesick and looked forward to coming
home in the holidays.
Owing to rickets Alf needed leg-irons as a child. Consequently
his growth was stunted and Alf's height of 5'4" was 4"
short of what it should have been.
When he was 14 Alfred went with his elder brother, Stanley, to
the Liverpool Empire Theatre, where he auditioned for a children's
music hall act, 'Will Murray's Gang'. He passed the audition, ran
away from the orphanage and joined the show. He travelled with the
troupe to Glasgow before being traced and returned to the orphanage,
where he was severely punished.
At 15 Alf left the orphanage and returned to the family home. One
week later he met 14 year old Julia
Stanley, his future wife, while taking a walk in Sefton Park.
With ideas of going on stage put behind him, Alf, in March 1930,
took a job as bellboy on board the Cunard passenger liner SS Montrose.
Meanwhile he kept in touch with Julia, writing to her and meeting
her whenever he docked in Liverpool. On 3 December 1938, they married
in secret at Mount Pleasant Registry Office. Alf's brother Sydney
was a witness and bought everyone a pub lunch afterwards. The newly
weds later moved into Julia's parent's house.
Now in the Merchant Navy Alf was at sea for long stretches of time.
In 1940 Julia became pregnant.
John Winston Lennon was born on 9 October 1940 but Alf didn't
see his son until November when he returned from a voyage. Mostly
at sea Alf didn't spend much time with Julia and John. In fact from
1 August 1940 until 13 January 1944 Alf spent only 3 months at home.
During the time he was away he jumped ship and was AWOL. Julia only
found out about this because she stopped getting her money and the
Navy wrote to her to inform her they were looking for Alf.
It was during this time that Julia met 'Taffy' Williams, a Welsh
soldier, and became pregnant. When Alf eventually came home, expecting
a homecoming, he was given short shrift. Pop Stanley demanded that
Julia give up her baby, and she reluctantly agreed. Victoria was
adopted in 1945.
Julia's marriage had by now broken down and her relationship with
Taffy was over and in time she met and fell in love with Bobby
Dykins. They moved in together with young John. But Julia's
sister Mimi and Pop were against the idea of all three of them living
in such a small flat so John was put in the care of Mimi.
When Alfred returned once again from a voyage he took John to Blackpool
for the summer. Alf wanted to explain to John that they could begin
a new life in New Zealand or Australia.The plan was aborted when
Julia, desperately looking for her son, collected him and returned
to Liverpool.
In 1949 Alf's career at sea ended when he was sent to prison for
six months. He had been drinking when, late at night, he spotted
a mannequin in a wedding dress in a shop window. Alf broke the window,
gathered the mannequin up in his arms and proceeded to dance in
the street. With a criminal record any hope of gaining custody of
his son vanished.
Alf did not see his son again until John was famous. Alf told his
story to the papers who set up a meeting with John on the set of
'A Hard Day's Night'.
In 1965 an agent called Tony Cartwright persuaded Alf to make a
record. They co-wrote 'That's My Life (My Love and My Home)', essentially
an autobiographical tale of Alfred's life.
There was no love lost between the Stanley family and Alf Lennon.
Mimi especially portrayed Alf as a man who had deserted his son.
But in 1967 Charlie, Alfred's
brother, wrote to John urging him to hear Alf's side of the story.
This led to a rekindling of the relationship between John and his
father.
But the relationship broke down irreparably in 1970 some months
after Alf's new wife Pauline gave birth to John's half brother.
David Henry was the first of two sons born to Pauline Jones, a woman
35 years Alf's junior who he had married despite her mother's objections.
Their second son was called Robin Francis Lennon.
When Alf contracted terminal stomach cancer Pauline contacted Apple
to make sure John knew his father was dying. John phoned Alf and
sent a large bouquet of flowers to the hospital. When Alf died,
John offered to pay for the funeral. Pauline refused, preferring
to pay for the arrangements herself.
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